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Why not think of genders like names?

My name is “Jessie Ewesmont” insofar as, and as long as, I respond to the name “Jessie Ewesmont” and acknowledge it as mine. I don’t have to voluntarily say the phrase “my name is Jessie Ewesmont” - maybe my parents gave it to me. But “Jessie Ewesmont” is my name in some sense as long as I think of it as mine and publicly acknowledge it as mine. The same can go for being, say, a woman.

Most people are given a name and a gender at birth. Most people stick with the names and genders they were given at birth. A few, for personal reasons, choose to change their names and/or genders. Conveniently, changing your gender is highly correlated with changing your name and undergoes a very similar psychological/ontological process, which makes it easier to think of them as similar.

Possible objections:

1) But then “women” as a category doesn’t mean anything!

That’s fine. I tend to think gender doesn’t mean much.

2) What about the fact that we categorize certain things as “womanly”/”girlish”/”feminine”?

That’s analogous to how we might call something a “Karen” move, or say that someone acts like a “Chad”. There are stereotypes associated with some names, and there are stereotypes associated with some genders. You can choose to follow the stereotype associated with your name/gender, or you can choose to not do so. It’s up to you.

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